Saturday, 17 August 2013

An Open Letter to the People of Booterstown and Ireland

Nearly two years to this day, the Rames Family was certainly sitting in large van with considerable baggage heading for Sea-Tac International Airport in Seattle, WA, USA.  We were actually heading toward something with much less certainty:  relocation to Dublin.  At that point, two weeks before school was to start, we didn’t know where the kids were going to go to school, where we were going to live, or what was really in store for us.  There were tears in that van from young and old.  We were leaving a community that we loved and felt very comfortable in.  A community with treasured friends.   A wise man in the van said, “It’s a good thing that you feel this way because it means that you have built good friends and when you leave something like that, it should make you feel sad.  I can only hope that when we leave Dublin, there will be these same tears.”  - Joe said this.

We’re a few days from leaving Booterstown and many tears have already been shed.  It’s really difficult to write a letter of thanks to a community, because “thank you” is something best delivered to a set of eyes.  Something that should be accompanied with a hug or a handshake.  We’ve already parted with many hugs and handshakes and there will be more tears to come, but many will have been missed.  Please take this letter along with a virtual hug and handshake.

I could probably fill many screens with stories of how the people and places of Ireland have seeped into the fabric of the Rames Family and I could sit here and mention each one.  I would likely miss my flight to the States.  How you captured us, is very simple:  You accepted us into your community.
I know that some may say that we found you by living in the community.  But renting a house does not mean acceptance.  Some may say that it was really our efforts and embracing of the community that made it possible.  Anyone that has embraced another and received nothing in return can attest to the fact that it takes two to make it happen.  You took us into your homes, schools, churches, clubs, and pubs.  You accepted us and taught us lessons that will stay with us forever.

I thought I’d end this letter with something Grace wrote and drew.  I will replace names with “Booterstown” as it so perfectly reflects how our family feels.  The rest will stay the same as I would not want to correct an imperfection.  There are certainly things about Ireland that are not perfect, but we have come to accept it as our home and know that we are not done with it. 

Dear Booterstown,

I will miss you soo much. Leaving Ireland is so hard and complacated.  You really lit my life up. At first I was didn’t really notice anything and I was like a little stone on the ground being trampled, but when I noticed I could stand up for myself I would be able to become freinds with everyone, my life changed completeley.  My life never be the same without you.  But when I left America, I thought my life would be horrible a tough, but now that I made freinds with you and everyone else, it was like I was born again and started a new life.

Love from the Rames Family
Xoxoxoxoxoxo
P.S. Teers

As you have accepted us into your lives and community, please know you are welcome into ours.  Until we meet again….